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Miller-Lehn, Burdette's avatar

Oh Wendy, my heart breaks for you and your dad and his situation πŸ’” still crying 😒. Hugs and wishing you strength and courage to do what’s being asked of you right now. 🀍

Elizabeth Tiller (Beth)'s avatar

It is difficult to know which aspect is the hardest, yes? When they all are so impossible. And yet, by God's grace you keep on keeping on. Sending prayers. Sending prayers.

Wendy Cichanski Caduff's avatar

That is so very true, Beth.

Mary Ellen's avatar

Wendy

This is so moving and I can identify with it on many levels. Prayers for you to have the strength to carry on. Remember to take care of yourself too

Wendy Cichanski Caduff's avatar

My heart goes out to you, Mary Ellen. Suffering and caregiving came to your door too. Holding space for us all.

Kristen M's avatar

Sending you love and prayers. You are so good at conveying your thoughts and sharing your life here. I wish we could do more to help.

Berger Mary's avatar

Oh Wendy Sue; I hear you! I feel our pain!

Kim's avatar

My heart hurts for you. I don't even know what else to say because I know there aren't really words that help.

Jodi's avatar

Beautifully written. It brings me right back to where you are now. May you continue to have the strength to move through this. You are a blessing to your dad and despite how incredibly difficult this is, this time is a gift to you too in a way you wouldn’t have expected and maybe can’t even fully appreciate right now. Hugs to you.

Pat's avatar

Oh, Wendy! We will keep you and your dad in our prayers. You are a blessing and you can do this!

Joy's avatar

Oh Wendy! Sending light and love your way!

Julie Peters's avatar

Beautifully written as always…so sorry you’re going through all this…also such a blessing you are for your Dad and very special times together now…bless you and take care of yourselfπŸ™πŸΌπŸ˜˜

isurma (null)'s avatar

Wendy,so sorry you are going through this hard time. I wish I had wise words to make this less painful. All I can say for sure is that your love and compassion for your dad is making a difference. Love is not wasted. It radiates. You have more strength than you realize and you are not alone.

Wendy Cichanski Caduff's avatar

This is so beautiful, as I reread your wise and empathetic reply. Thank you for reaching out.